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Drug preguntas
Oct 10
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Look Nice. This doesn't mean you have to wear a tuxedo, but you also can't show up wearing nice jeans and a t-shirt. Wear a nice button down shirt (but leave the collar unbuttoned), tucked in, and can be done with a blazer jacket or without. If you are going to a expensive restaurant, add maybe a tie. Don't wear dress pants. Slap on your favorite pair of jeans, as long as they're not all ripped up or covered in dirt.
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Don't wear anything with bad jokes on it. Bad jokes are definitely a big no-no but words on a t-shirt is more than fine, especially if it's a unique piece/vintage/not seen in most chain stores. It makes you stand out as someone who cares about their casual clothing and isn't just a slave to fashion labels.
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Mind your manners. This is a key ingredient for a successful date. No girl likes a guy who's rude and obnoxious, but don't be too formal either.
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Have good table manners. Chew with your mouth closed, don't slurp your drink, don't talk with your mouth full, burp, fart, or do anything that could be perceived as disgusting. If you do this, then the date will be OVER!!! Place your napkin on your lap, don't tuck it in your collar!!
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Don't let the conversation be completely focused on you. Talking about only yourself can make you seem arrogant. Ask her about herself, where she went/goes to school, family, etc. Just don't make it too personal if it's your first date, and especially if she does not seem comfortable. Also, be funny and make her laugh.
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Make a decent departure. Hug each other. Kiss her on the cheek if you want to, but don't go into deep and intimate kissing. And if she gives you her phone number, always call her within 2-3 days afterwards. When you leave a message don't say why you called but just say to call back and leave your phone number even if she has it.
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Remember that if it is a first date, she might be just as nervous as you are so don't be too judgmental. Just try to make it fun and relaxing :)
Oct 10
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Determine how you felt about the date. Your feelings about your date should guide you toward a preference. For example, if you really liked your date, then you may prefer to see the person again, right away. Evaluate the following:
- Consider what you liked and disliked about your date. Make a list of the things you liked about the person, as well as a list of the things you did not like. Decide if there is anything on the list that gives you a definitive answering regarding follow-up.
- Assess your level of interest. You may be extremely interested in knowing more about the person, have a passing interest rather than a desire or completely lack any interest in learning more about your date. Remember that people may not always be their natural selves during first dates, so you may want to give someone that you're not quite sure about a second chance.
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Assess the date from a subjective standpoint. Although there is no standard dating how to formula, there are ways to measure a date's subjective success. Chances are that if a date was successful by certain measures, then a second date is a good idea. Think about the following:
- Signs of a good first date include regular eye contact, playful flirting, time passing without either party being aware, physical gestures (touching hands, brushing up against each other, etc.), ease of conversation, open body stance, mimicking each others' body language and speaking of doing things together in the future.
- Signs of a bad first date include 1 person or the other talking too much, excessive egocentric talk, bringing up past relationships, extended uncomfortable silences, checking the time, overtly sexual flirting, texting or phoning during the date, closed body language (crossed arms), frequent trips to the restroom, criticism, rudeness to other people, unwarranted affection, lack of response to wanted affection and unexpectedly ending the date early.
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Consider how the date ended. Gauging where and how the date left off is a great way to figure out how you should act after the first date.
- If the date ended abruptly, without much of a goodbye or even a walk to the doorway, that may be indicative of a lack of interest. Conversely, if both of you seemed to be stretching the end of the date out, then there may be more there to explore.
- When both parties willingly go in for a kiss at the end of a first date, then it is likely that they are both interested in getting to know each other. Conversely, if the date ended with an awkward hug or an unreciprocated romantic gesture, then it is likely that either 1 or both of the daters was not interested in advancing the relationship.
- Keep in mind that the closing comments of the date can be the decisive factor in regards to how you should act afterward. For example, if you tell your date you will call, then it is up to you to call. Likewise, if your dates ends ambiguously, with no one volunteering follow-through, then you will have to decide how you want to handle things post-date.
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Follow up in accordance with what you know about the date. Take into account how you feel about the date, how subjectively successful you think the date was and how the date ended. You have a number of options when it comes to post-date follow-up:
- If you determine that you are not interested in getting to know the person after your first date, or if you are convinced the date was irreparably unsuccessful, then there is no need to pursue another date. However, it is a good idea to let the person know that you are not interested so as to avoid unwanted follow-up on the other end.
- If the date went well and you want to see the other person again, then you may want to contact the other person. There is no official dating how to about when to call back, although 2 to 3 days is a commonly cited timeframe. Prepare what you want to say ahead of time so as to avoid stumbling over your words, and be sure to let the other know that you enjoyed the date and would like to get together again. Also, be ready to make a specific second-date suggestion. For example, a good post-date message could go something like, "I had a great time with you the other night and would love to see you again. Would you like to see that new movie we talked about this coming weekend?"
- If you are interested in a second date, but refuse to make follow-up contact, then you have no choice but to wait for the other to contact you.
Oct 08
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Choose what suits you. Wearing longer skirts is an interesting and stylish alternative to the ever popular minis skirt. Skirts that are too short look trashy, but that doesn't mean a shorter skirt can't be chic – It's all about balance. If you are wearing a shorter skirt, if necessary wear tights/stockings underneath, or if you are going bare legged, make sure you aren't showing off a lot of cleavage as well. Go for either legs or cleavage if you must, but not both! A fail proof option is a slim fitting skirt that is knee length or lower, with a thin belt. If you don’t like skirts, wear some nice slacks, not the granny kind of slacks but the slacks at stores like Express and Forever 21. Wear skinny pants during the winter, in colors such as: white, black velvet, and green corduroy are good options. Luxurious jewel tones, like emerald and ruby add refined elegance to any Winter outfit. Cardigans are good options for sweaters to keep warm during the winter and spring, since it is mild in spring. You can also wear cute cream colored sweaters in the winter with hoods or denim jackets. Don't wear labeled hoodies (for example you have a hoodie that says Abercrombie and Fitch on it.) for those are very sloppy. Classic shoes are: ballet flats and heels, but only get the heels if you know how to walk in them. Excluding outdoor activities, aim to wear event-appropriate heels to anything after dark. Brogues and summer sandals are chic and simple alternatives for more summery or outdoorsy shoes.
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Style your hair in a classic style. Wash your hair with volumizing shampoo and conditioner. Spray a root boosting spray on the roots. Put a heat protecting serum on. Blow dry your hair upside down. Curl your hair with rollers or a flat iron for chic and glamorous waves. Hairspray to lock in the curls/waves. Add a chic headband. You can wear this hairstyle everyday, but don't be afraid to mix it up, by trying a chic low ponytail, chignons, a bun or a plait. To take it to a night look, do the same thing but before you curl, grab a section at the crown, spray some hairspray, and tease with a teasing comb. Then do this 2 more times with more sections under it. Then curl and when you’re done curling and spraying throw it up in a claw clip in a halfway twist. For an elegant up-do great for any special event when you want to look chic. To revive your hair from all the heat, teasing, and spraying, try using Pantene Pro-V Strengthening Mask once a week so you can have as little damage as possible.
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Don't be afraid to get called names. .There are a lot of teenagers that only wear Abercrombie, Hollister, Aeropostale and other stupid brand names. If you look different make fun of you. That's how life is. If they don't like you, shake it off and find some other friends that accept you for who you are.
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Try on lots of clothes before you go out.Make sure you try on everything and see what looks best. Don't be afraid to take your time because you want to make sure you look your absolute best when you go out.
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Put on accessories that clash a key color in what you are wearing. Lovely flower accessories are great for looking chic. Wear pearls in the day and wear diamonds at night. They don't have to be real, but just make them gleam.
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Look natural and light. Wear light makeup. Only wear concealer, foundation, blush, and mascara. And wear light body spray that is fresh and feminine.
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Most importantly, show off your beautiful smile and sweet personality. Be an interesting conversationalist by being genuinely interested in the other person and don't be fake or pretentious. A beautiful personality is the final key to being truly chic.
Oct 08
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To gain confidence, the best practice to do is start with the man in the mirror. Start with yourself and voice out! Confidence is number one because this is the basic key to this how to. Get a mirror and start making expressions at yourself and look and hear how you appear to and edit.
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To look cute, you could have a short pixie cut and clips. If you prefer long hair, wear a head band and a high side-way ponytail. For people with nappy hair, wear braids or an afro. Earrings should be cute and small, even if you want dangly ones. Wear pastel colours or bright colours. White is perfect, and avoid black.
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Stay cheerful and happy. Smile! Laugh! Socialize! Stand out and stand up!
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Join school clubs and join a LOT. Do NOT shy away and step up and stand straight.
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You don't have to show your shape or be small. What you can't change just doesn't matter, African American or Caucasian!
Oct 08
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Wear the style of clothes that you like. There is nothing better than showing who you are through your style of clothes. It is also easier to feel comfortable and confident when you are wearing what you like.
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Be polite. Don't be Ms.Perfect,and don't feel like you should be kissing someones butt to win him over.
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Stand up for yourself. If you are one of those shy types don't let people talk to you bad in front of him.Use sarcasm,and if you don't know any comebacks look online,and practice them in the mirror.
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Spend time with the guy. You can use many things to spend time with him such as looking at who he is hanging out with and seeing if you know them. Then you have an excuse to hang out with that guy. You can also ask him for input on a real or fake question you were "debating" with your friend about. If you have a class with him, go up to him and ask him questions about class, or a project you may have. Try to bring up their favourite things such as bands, or music genres.
Oct 08
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Smell good. Wash your hair everyday or every other day depending on you hair type is, take a shower in the morning or the evening, brush your teeth, wear deodorant and/or perfume. Do whatever you need to smell nice.
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Keep your hair nice. Comb and brush your hair (unless your hair is curly) to keep it healthy. Wash your hair, have a good conditioner, and put it in a style you feel comfortable with.
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Have good manners. No one likes a potty mouth so don't swear or curse…. that often. It may slip, if it does just say "Oops I did not mean to say that, sorry." and make an effort not to say it again. Always say please and thank you and excuse me when you burp.
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BE NICE!! You want friends right? Be nice to people so people will want to be around you!
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Everyday wake up at 6:00 A.M and go to bed at 9:45 P.M so you can be refreshed. Or whatever works for your schedule.
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Feel good about yourself. If you don't feel confident, you won't look confident. Don't wear or do anything unless you want to.
Oct 08
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Make sure you've got a bunch of guy friends because a lot of your guy friends may be so nice because they secretly admire you. Take Fabian and Nina from House Of Anubis for example: Fabian is so nice to Nina because he secretly admires her. That doesn't mean that they don't want to be your friend, it just means they think you're better than a friend.
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Your style needs to be down to earth, sophisticated and innocent because if boys want to come talk to you about something (hopefully a date) then they feel more confident talking to a sweet styled girl than a punk rock chick!
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ACT INNOCENT make sure that you act innocent even when you get caught doing something you shouldn't be. However, this should NEVER happen, because your supposed to be sophisticated and sensible.
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Make sure you don't act like a snob. If a guy gives you a present then the cute way tosay thank you is to text him the word "thanks" and then use a cute smiley face emoticon. Remember that when you go on a date you must bring a present in return because if you don't he'll think that you completely forgot about the present. (If the present is something you can wear then make sure you do wear it on your date this way the guy will know you love the present and know you care about his feelings.)
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Remember you have to talk to him BEFORE class because talking to him in class and getting him into trouble is not cool, and of course if you talk to him at break or after school then he'll be with his mates and boys' friends usually make fun of him if he leaves them to go and talk to 'some girl' as they call them.
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Use cute body language. Don't act flirty because then he'll get a whole new image which will make him uncomfortable if he doesn't like you. It's down to earth and sweet or nothing!
Oct 08
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Try to catch their eye first by wearing fashionable clothes. If you do not have a lot of money at stores that offer good sales. You do not have to have expensive clothes to make you look rich. But try to look you best. Skinny jeans are really popular, try them!
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Get your nails done, but do not try to get really bright colors. This just makes you seem like a loser and wannabe. Try to go more natural like light pink or brown. French manicure`s are very pretty, calm, and natural.
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Try to start a conversation with her.
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Give her your cell number.
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Get a boyfriend. Try to get one with roots to her. But do not just use him because that is so not cool. some people will think you are harsh if you do that.
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