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Sep 15

How to Be Drama Free for Tween Girls

Phychology of a teenager. Add comments

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Be nice and ignore the haters. You will always have people who make mean comments or rumors. Just ignore it, as it really does make you the bigger and better person. Make sure you always have a family member or a close friend to talk to about it. Ignoring mean comments can be extremely hard, so having a friend to talk to about it might help. In these situations, you might want to stay away from places you can get teased at, be made fun of, etc. For example, if you're bothered at your locker, come before or after everyone is gone.
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Don't gossip. It will get back to that person one way or another. Gossip is when you talk about people in hurtful ways. Sometimes you may want to 'gossip' about a bully and that's OK as long as you know that no one is overhearing you, and that the person you talk to is trustworthy and won't say anything about it.
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Wear appropriate clothes. You don't have to wear turtle necks, but make sure you are not revealing to much skin. Arrange a dress code with your parents or something so you know what is appropriate to wear and what isn't. TIP: when shopping, always try on the clothes before you buy it so you don't go home, put it on, and realize it is too revealing.
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Don't curse! You're not helping your case with cussing. No one likes a "truckers mouth". Cursing also is rude and in certain places can get you in trouble.
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If you have a social network such as Facebook, keep your personal opinions or problems off of it and mind your own business. You will always have girls posting drama-filled statuses or hate comments, as tempted as you get to say something, don't. It will just cause more problems and stress for you. Always think before posting a photo…try thinking "how would my parents feel about this picture?".
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Understand your parents/guardians. Sometimes you'll disagree with what they are saying, but they have a good reasoning for it and you will thank them later. Parents/guardians do things that they think are right. Don't be too hard on them, understand what they are saying, do what they tell you, and realize that they are only human. They will do what they think is right and since they are your legal guardian, you have to listen to them.
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Stay away from drugs and alcohol. It can literally mess up the rest of your life.
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Enjoy being young while you can. Just hang out with girlfriends and have fun, when you get to high school there is enough drama already, stay away from it as long as you can. Surround yourself with people you enjoy being around and live every second like your last.