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Oct 10

How to Be Successful in a Date (for Girls)

Phychology of a teenager. Add comments

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Look your best, but not like you tried too hard. Make sure your hair is clean, your makeup is light and natural, and your dressed up comfortably, yet well. Also, make sure to be clean and use a good deodorant and perfume, too – smelling good makes you more attractive. You need to feel like yourself, yet you need to feel appealing so you'll be more confident. Also, be sure you know how to appear and dress for the occasion. If not, don't be afraid to ask your date! If he is going to your house or somewhere that you have gone and he has not, be sure to give him some dressing advice as well, but don't be too pushy.
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Be polite. Treat him right, but don't go overboard. Just be yourself, but make sure to be lady-like and educated to him.
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Be nice to talk with but also be a good listener. Talk about yourself, let the conversation go naturally. But be careful, don't talk too much, let him know that you're truly interested in knowing about him – so ask about him, about what he likes doing. Simply be interested in what he says and show it. He appreciate it.
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Don't take yourself too seriously. Meaning, don't try too hard to be all sexy, seductive or to seem mature. Guys like girls who can be playful and fun – so laugh, don't be too high maintenance and treat him as a friend. But don't go overboard, you still need to be polite and lady-like, so don't exaggerate.
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Play a little hard to get. Only cause you guys are on a date, doesn't mean you need to make it easy for him. Be great to be with, but don't let him kiss you so easily or do anything more than that. It is only a date, and if you let him think he can kiss you or go to bed with you so easily, chances are he will not take you seriously enough for a second date… or for a more serious relationship.