Sep 30

How to Figure Out Who You Are

Phychology of a teenager. Add comments
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    Find a style that you really like.  Go alone, or with the closest friends you have if you prefer, to the mall and look at all the of the clothing stores that interest you, even the tiniest bit.  Buy a few shirts, pants, skirts, anything you want that you really like.  Try not to label yourself with you do this.  Instead of saying, "I wear a lot of black, so I must be goth", say something like, "I like the color black on me."

     
     
     
     
     
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    Think about all of your friends, enemies, people you don't know personally, but you've seen, everyone!  Eliminate the people who have been cruel, and mean to you and just try to block them out more.  Then take the people that you like, and are nice to you, and be your total self around them.  Finally, take the people you don't know, and get to know them.  Talk to the new people as you would your friend.

     
     
     
     
     
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    Look at yourself in the mirror and think about all of the reasons why you love yourself, and what you maybe would like to change.  Keep the qualities you like, and make an effort to change the things you don't like.

     
     
     
     
     
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    -Optional- Get a journal. Write in it as much as you want, once a day, or once a month.  It's totally up to you, and when you get mad/sad/excited/ETC you can write about it.  This helps in 3 ways; Its a great way to take out your anger, or sadness, you'll be entertained, and you can look back at what you wrote, and learn something new about yourself.

     
     
     
     
     
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    Find hobbies like swimming, riding horses, writing, singing, or more broad things like sports, music, and animals. Choose three and do them as much as you can.  Also, if one of your interests is music you can choose a favorite band.




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