Sep 15
Sep 15
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1Be yourself. You don't want anyone to think that you're a poser. The following information is just ideas on how to improve yourself so that people think you're perfect. So don't be someone else. No one can do you better than you!
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2Don't complain about things that happen to you. It makes you seem like you want others to feel bad for you, and its just plain annoying to listen to.
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3Know your likes and dislikes. Don't pretend to like something to get someone's attention. If you're really into punk rock, but most of the people at your school are preps, don't worry, just be friendly, and they'll appreciate that you have different interests. It may even make them want to get to know you better.
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4Have your own style of dress. Just make it what you like, and what you find comfortable to wear. It doesn't need to be the most expensive, it should just make you feel confident and happy.
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5Try not to talk about people behind their backs. I know it's hard to do, so if you are going to do it, just talk about it to one really close friend, who you can trust won't go around telling others what you said.
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6Try to make friends with people in different cliques. You can be friends with anyone you like, and it doesn't matter if some of your friends are preps, and some of your friends are Goths. Just be nice and friendly to everyone.
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7Do your best in school. Try your hardest and study a little each night instead of the night before a test. That way, you have time to do what you like after you finish your homework, and still have time to have a social life.
Sep 15
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1Figure out hobbies you love to do and find other people who like to do them. Knowing that other people have the same interests as you will make you feel normal.
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2Give yourself attention. Paint your nails, buy some new clothes or give yourself a facial. Whatever you do, make sure it is for yourself.
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3Don't let anyone boss you around(except for your parents). Girls with boyfriends often wear what he wants them to wear.
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4Hang out with a group of friends who try to be themselves.
Sep 15
- Put on the makeup. Make sure you know how to apply it correctly, and it's for girls your age!
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2Try out for the team. Practice, practice, practice for the sport, your trying out for and amaze the players and coach!
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3Dig through the closet. Find old stuff for your new look!
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4Get extremely dramatic. Cry, scream, smile big-whatever!
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5Wear glasses, contacts, etc. Make sure your parents and doctor, dentist, etc. agree!
Sep 15
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1Have a unique appearance. Pay attention to what people wear and how. Make a digital look book and look through it to see what you are particularity drawn to.
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2Find unique ways to spend your time. Question everything about how you spend your time. Apply the 80/20 principle to how you spend your time.
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3Hang out with people who are unique and don't care what other people think. But don't feel obliged to hang out with people you don't like becau
Sep 15
How to Be More Confident, More Attractive and Happier: 7 Steps
Phychology of a teenager. No Comments »-
1New look. Get a more flattering haircut, style your hair and wash your skin with proper face wash and use a proper face toner. If you're a guy, make sure you keep your eyebrows clean and not too bushy, and that you shave your face properly and carefully. If you're a girl or if you like makeup, use a little bit in a tasteful way and make sure you tweeze your eyebrows.
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2Dress nice and smell nice. Do some research on the internet about the latest fashion for your gender and style, and then go for the types of clothing that suits your personal taste, style and body. You do not have to spend too much, you can always find fashionable clothing in less expensive stores.
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3Walk confidently. Stand up straight, head up and stride around like you own the place. Face people to show you aren't afraid.
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4Communicate. Ask questions to people to strike up conversations, don't be too nice but at least communicate.
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5Smile and laugh more easily.
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6Eat well and exercise. Eat five moderate and healthy meals everyday and try to exercise. Do some push-ups and crunches everyday.
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7Explore yourself. Read books and magazines that are different from what you usually read, watch shows and movies that you don't usually do, go take a walk in places where you don't usually go, eat at restaurants that you don't usually eat. Do it every week at least once. New experiences bring new life lessons and you'll feel more confident and happier, and even will have the chance of meeting new people.
Sep 15
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1Train your mind. First you have to get into the right mindset. Look around, find something that looks just a little too perfect, and desire to change it. It may be your sister's hair, it could be a statue on a dresser, it might be your own trophy from some amazing feat. It may be your teacher's glasses, something written on the chalkboard or your boss's favorite pencil cup. Whatever it is, its where its been for the last 20 days or more in a row and that has just got to change.
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2Do Small movements. Mischief does not have to be big. In fact, if its too big, it becomes either hooliganisms or outright naughtiness and you are not striving for that. Making mischief means striving to make someone wonder if they are going crazy, without getting caught. So, let's take some of the previous examples.
- Is your sister's hair just so? Give her an exasperated hug. Gently slap her back while stroking her head, thereby messing up her hair without her knowing.
- Is your parent's prized statue on the left hand side of the mantle? Move it to the right or across the room. Make sure its safe, so it wont break, but move it, without getting caught.
- Is your trophy on your dresser? On a bookshelf? Wherever it might be, take it and put it on the fridge, for no reason at all.
- Now for the classroom. Does your teacher put their glasses in the same place every day? If so, when their back is turned, move the glasses to the other side of their desk.
- The chalkboard is harder. When the teacher steps out of the room to deal with something, run up and either erase something already written or write something unusual or draw a small scene. Keep it clean and small. The teacher should not notice it right away.
- Same thing can be done to your boss. If they step away at lunch, move their pencil cup or rotate their computer in a new position. Do it in small increments each time so that they are left to wonder at the change, but not alter it back.
- Is your sister's hair just so? Give her an exasperated hug. Gently slap her back while stroking her head, thereby messing up her hair without her knowing.
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3Issue new verbal cues. Mischief does not have to be all action.
- Have a desire to make strange noises? Pick a moment when there are just 2-3 people in a room. Say something random or just make a silly noise. Pretend you don't notice anything odd. Then keep silent for a long while. If everyone settles back down, after, say three to six minutes pass in silence again, do your sound again. Do not giggle.
- Again, make sure there is only 2-3 people in the room. Sing just one line at a time in two to three minute intervals of your favorite song. Pretend you have headphones on, even if you don't. Keep your eyes closed for effect. This works well for the library.
- Have a desire to make strange noises? Pick a moment when there are just 2-3 people in a room. Say something random or just make a silly noise. Pretend you don't notice anything odd. Then keep silent for a long while. If everyone settles back down, after, say three to six minutes pass in silence again, do your sound again. Do not giggle.
Sep 15
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1"Find out what your friends are doing". You could phone up your friends and go shopping or do something fun that you like to do together. Two heads are better than one.
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2"Join clubs". Look on the internet or ask people at your school if there's any local clubs that you can join. You'll make loads of new friends, or your own friends can join too. It also means you'll have a new interest. Whether it's an art club, or a dance club, it will keep you busy.
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3"Get baking". If you love eating and would like to make a delicious snack, baking is perfect. There's tons of recipes. You can buy a cookbook or look online for thousands of recipes, such as cookies, cupcakes, brownies…there's lots of things you can make.
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4"Throw a party or a sleepover" Invite all your friends round and tell them to bring CD's or a movie you could all watch. Make sure you have snacks, or bake some snacks together. Your sleepover could be themed. You might all have to dress up as your favourite celebrity or it could be a wild west theme, or you could throw a spa sleepover where you give each other makeovers.
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5"Find good websites". Type in the Google search bar The Impossible Quiz. It's a quiz with 100 and something questions, but you only have 3 lives. You'll love it if you're bored. You could also type in Chat Bazaar. It's a non registration chat room.
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6"Write fan fiction". Have you ever read a book and thought that the ending was bogus, or that in some way it just should have been different? Well, then make it different! Write your own version of what you think should have happened. Or maybe you could even write the sequel that never was! Or even your own book!
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7"Go for a walk".
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8"Watch a Movie" This will entertain you for several hours.
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9"Exercise" Exercising is not only fun, but it improves your overall health. Exercising does not always mean going to the gym, but there are many fun activities that you can participate in. You can take a class, join a sport or train for a race. You can even try rock climbing. Getting active is very important.
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10"Find a New Hobby" finding a new hobby will make you more open to trying new thing, allow you to learn a lot and take up lots of time.
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11"Volunteer" Find an organization or cause you really care about and volunteer. You can really make a difference in the world by just donating some of your time. Volunteering can be really fun and lead to new friendships as well.
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12"Get a Job" You will make money, gain work experience and make new friends. Find something you love.
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13"Read" Reading increases your vocabulary and is fun. Find books you really enjoy. You don't have to stick with books, you can read the news, poetry and magazines.
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14Listen to music. You can dance to it.
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15Head up to the local park with some friends and have a picnic
Sep 15
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1Appreciate all the things you have. Whether it is a loving family, friends or looks, learn to love what you've got. Take advantage of these things and be happy with what you have.
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2Love yourself. Just remember if you don't love yourself then no one will- in the exception of relatives. Pamper yourself look after yourself… Be hygienic, look at yourself in the mirror and repeat to yourself that there is no one like you and everyone wants to be you.
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3Then you shall respect yourself. Self-respect is an important skill that will guide you in life. Think to yourself i am a human being like everyone else, and if not better i am the same as everyone one else- why should i not love and respect and cherish what i have? A proverb- Be smart if you can, beautiful if you want to, but be respected now that is essential.
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4Busy yourself with things. For example, start music lessons individually if you want- e.g. school music room- piano…, read books believe me they are interesting. Take time to do things you want- like drawing, listening to music, making crafts- origami, put music on and start doing belly dancing or hip hop if you prefer?
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5Spend time with your family if possible. Socialize with them. Play simple games such as snakes&ladders, chess, cards… Or just watch films together, discuss books with each other, all sorts of things
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6Never think you are lonely. There are many things for you to do. Just because you don't have that many friends does not mean you can't enjoy yourself! You will indeed create self-confidence and self-esteem by being an independent person.
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7Educate yourself. No matter what, education is an important factor in life- read as many books as possible,even if you don't like try you never know. Maths is important to learn it well- if you are not so interested in the academic subjects choose to learn a language- you can get many jobs by knowing a few different languages. All of this will make you a stronger and more confident person.
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8Socialize with everyone in class- if in school. Don't just stick to one friend have many people you can socialize with and enjoy their company. Make then come to you by talking less but more interestingly. Talk about different things with different people- if someone is into sport- talk about sport, if someone else is into fashion and music then talk about these things to keep them interested and most importantly let them know you know about everything- this is when education helps- being clever.
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9Don't think about negative things too much. What happened, happened and that's that!! Forget it and enjoy yourself. Don't take things too seriously.
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10Be happy. Just think that there are people who are desperate for the things that you may have and appreciate them and cherish them. Love and respect yourself and then everything else will happen with a flow. With negative thoughts negative things will happen. Its karma. What you give you get back.
Sep 15
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1Be yourself. You can't be truly happy unless you know the person who you're trying to make happy (YOU!). Spend some time alone to think about who you are and what your purpose in life is, so that you can use that as a guide in your life.
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2Make friends. Communicate. Chat with your friends about anything; from movies and music, to fashion and boys. Being a (teen) girl should be fun, exciting, and full of new surprises!
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3Enjoy giggles with your best friends by going to sleepovers, parties, and events together. Try to go shopping, especially on weekends, or watch a new movie together as a group. Also, try to make new friends, and e. When you grow up, you start to feel insecure about yourself. Your appearance and your body are your sole focus all of a sudden. Remember that curves are the must have accessory, so don't diet because your "friends" tell you to, or because you see airbrushed celebrities, or just because you see yourself as a little bit chubby. Just remember to drink plenty of water every day, try and eat plenty of fruit and vegetables, and exercise for around thirty minutes a day. Having a body that you like will help to bring up your confidence.
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4Find what you love. Whether it's jazz music, volleyball, dancing, or singing into your tattered hairbrush, everyone has a passion that makes them smile. Practice doing what you love, with your friends, or flying solo.
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5Spend quality time with your mother. Maybe it's watching a movie together, or just having a girl gossip! Mothers are like your best friend, except they're always there for you and don't judge. Also talk to the rest of your family! Chat with friends, and keep in touch with female cousins and aunts.
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6Know that you and you alone have your ideas. Don't just let them sit in the back of your mind; share them with the world! It is the only way to make your wildest dreams come true.
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7Pick your friends wisely. If you find a person or a group of people that you can trust, have fun with, talk personally with, and they make you happy when you're around them, then you've probably found good friends. If your friends try to coax you into doing bad things or things you don't want to do, don't. You don't have to give in. If they're strongly pressuring you to do bad things, find new friends. Remember that you become the people that you hang out with. If you hang out with bad influences then you will become like them. If you hang out with good influenced people then you will become like them. Be a good judge of character.
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