How to Change to a Nice Person

Phychology of a teenager. Add comments
  1. 1
    Stop picking on the people you pick on. Do this for about two weeks or more depending on how badly you victimized the person. It is a gradual process.
     
  2. 2
    After the two weeks or more start saying "Hey" or "Hello" to people you have treated as victims before. Do not start a conversation; keep it to a wave, or a "Hello".
     
  3. 3
    When you hear them start saying "Hey" back to you, then start saying their name after the greeting. No conversations yet!
     
  4. 4
    Start up a conversation. After a while, they will start saying your name too. It is now time for the longest, hardest, and most emotionally unbalancing conversation of your life. Point blank. Ask them if you can talk to them alone. If they say no, just say OK and walk away. They're not ready for this moment just yet.
    • In the case that they say no, go back to step 3.
       
    • In the case that they say yes, go to a place where the two of you can be alone, but be in a place where there are people, like a book store or a coffee shop.
       
     
  5. 5
    Before the conversation starts turn off your cell phone.
     
  6. 6
    Mean what you say. Tell them the truth and answer the questions they ask you. Also ask for their forgiveness and wait because they're not going to forgive you right then and there; you have to earn their forgiveness. What you do after the conversation is up to you.



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