Oct 10

How to Ask Out a Guy Without it Backfiring

Phychology of a teenager. Add comments
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    Get the IM address of your guy. This is because it might be easier to ask him out over the internet, and you will have more confidence.

     
     
     
     
     
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    Notice if the guy is flirting with you. It can help to have a second opinion on this from your friends. If people, including yourself, think he is, then it is time to go for it.

     
     
     
     
     
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    Plan things out. If you know exactly what to say and how to say it, everything will work fine.

     
     
     
     
     
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    Have a very careful approach when asking him on a date. Make it seem like hanging out when you are asking him so that you can always cover up if the plan goes wrong. However, it is crucial that you keep things light-hearted and flirty so that he can guess that you don't mean just as friends.

     
     
     
     
     
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    Meet at somewhere mutual and fun (for example just grab an ice cream or something). Keep it short and quirky – that way you retain some mystery, and make him want to see you again.

     
     
     
     
     
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    Try and set a date to meet again, but don't be too pushy.




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